This should be very very simple.
After searching and asking the only things i could find where related to distances etc.
This is what i did for a first test
Private Sub Map1_MapClick(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As MapClickWinformsMapEventArgs)
Dim p As New PointShape(e.WorldX, e.WorldY)
Dim pointLayer As InMemoryFeatureLayer = DirectCast(Map1.FindFeatureLayer("PointLayer"), InMemoryFeatureLayer)
pointLayer.Open()
Dim selectedFeatures As Collection(Of Feature) = pointLayer.QueryTools.GetFeaturesNearestTo(p, GeographyUnit.DecimalDegree, 1, ReturningColumnsType.AllColumns)
Dim clickedUser As Feature = selectedFeatures(0)
but that would result in getting a feature every time i would click on the map....
Simple click handler for one feature???